[[*my 6 cents worth]]

Friday, May 12, 2006

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recently, i have been thinking about you more often than not..

i truly missed your presence..even the silent times we share..

all these short memories are simply irreplacable by other people..

these days..

i seldom have any chance to provide others any advice on their relationship problems..

maybe that should be a good news..

no news = to good news..

there are however, a few that still has their usual problems..

advice i have given..

to take it or not it's up to them..

it's their life afterall..

and they are the ones living the decision..

S is currently deciding on whether to go back to his ex or staying on with the present gal..

he left his ex for this gal..

and because of the past and the future consequences..

he has to make his next move right and good..

or it's like a make good or break kind of thing..

i told him to be truthful to himself..

choose the one that he wants to spend the rest of his life with..

and he told me he don't know..

his ex is by his side waiting and the present gal can't live without him..

the story is kind of long and complicated..

but frankly speaking..

i think it all boils down to one thing..

choose the one that you want and let the other go..

it's not a case that you do not know who you want..

just that you are putting in too much consideration for other people and stuff..

but come to think of it..

your aim is not to hurt anyone..

but..

no matter what decision you make..

someone's bound to get hurt..

just a matter of Who.

dragging the problem could only worsen the problem and prolong the pain..

let one of them and it will be better for all 3 of you..

don't think too much about how that person is gonna stand up from the hurt..

she will have a way.

No one is born weak or helpless.

Everyone learns about things the hard way.

You have to feel pain in order to know what is happiness.

You have to feel hurt in order to understand good.

I learn the hard way too.

maybe more.

and here i am now.

i stand good and well.

i know he might not love me now.

might not even have loved me.

but i am fine.

i have sorten out more thoughts than i could and been through a tough good ride..emerging from it better and stronger.

i know what i want and i will not fight it.

i'll live with it.

S..

if you are reading this..

make a decision with your heart truly.

the direction is there.

the journey starts from you.

another 6 cents thoughts at|5/12/2006 03:09:00 PM|

[[ The Writer... ]]

a Simple SomeOne..
who Hides behind a Mask called..
'6 Cents Worth'..
for a Space called my Own...
Somewhere out there but yet Within...

[[ The Writer's Note... ]]

Here is e deepest Secret nobody knows..
Here is e Root of e Root..
And e Bud of e Bud..
And e Sky of e Sky..
Of a Tree Called Life..
Which grows Higher..
Than e Soul can Hope or Mind can Hide..
N dis is e Wonder tt's Keepin e Stars Apart..
I Carry Your Heart..
I Carry It in My Heart..

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I Love the simple pleasures in Life..
And I basically hate Nothin' actually..
Cause' I choose Happiness in e beginning..
And Every Happiness brings with it..
Unhappiness..
But it is with Unhappiness..
That you learn about..
True Happiness..

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